Communication problems in dating
For those who don’t, the underlying cause is usually unhealthy emotional dynamics (see problems #2, 3, 4, 5, 6 and 7, above.) Now, if you never really had sparks, you may not be sexually compatible.
But if you had a strong sexual connection initially, sexual problems are almost always caused by what’s happening If sex is important to you, make sure you find a partner with whom you’re sexually compatible and have strong chemistry.
Trying to train your girlfriend not to trigger you is an exercise in frustration, like trying to cover the world in leather rather than putting on shoes.
Yes, “lesbian bed death” is a common lesbian relationship problem, but some lesbian couples keep their sexual mojo forever.
You can’t know why someone does what she does, or how things feel to her, until you’re able to ask her – and then listen open-heartedly.
Many empathic, loving women have a Florence Nightingale complex: if you meet someone who’s had a hard life, doesn’t trust love, and doesn’t love herself, you just know you can heal all that, right? If her life is a mess, that’s okay, you can fix it, right? You can’t have a relationship with her potential – you can only have a relationship with who she is right now.
Love does not conquer all – you also need to have compatibility!
(See below) She could be cute, hot and a great person. Because great as those are, none of those things mean that you and she are compatible for the long haul. None of us is born knowing how to have a happy, healthy, lasting relationship, and most of us didn’t learn it from our parents, either!